Aita for not allowing my neighbors to make a copy reddit The other person might have agreed to it. Well, i have this one neighbor, let's call her "teresa" and she's a problematic neighbor, the neighbors doesn't find her very pleasing to be around, the thing is she seems Im going to add my two cents as a kid who wasn’t allowed to do a lot of things in my childhood because of my parents own issues (versus a concern for my safety or wellbeing that was backed by evidence or even a suspicion of evidence), there’s going to be a breaking point for your kid whether she’s 13 or 17. His relationship with his parents has always been strained. My neighbor is asking to put a car in my driveway now. not allowing nabours to swim in my pool and not helping a single mom 2) kicking them out of my yard Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQ. If it turns out it wouldn’t (and sounds like that’s a distinct possibility here), then you can use that when your neighbors are acting shitty. Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQ In my opinion, OP actually under-reacted. Mandy was furious with me and tried convincing my parents not to pay me. Some people have junk cars in their yards, there’s people with chickens (myself included), people with uncut yards, and yet every house here is pretty high value. My policy gives 1 opportunity per month to lend my car to someone not in my family or an approved driver when the driver does not have their own insurance. I moved in to my neighborhood for almost 7 years now and there wasn't any serious issues, most of my neighbors are friendly and my daughter are friends with their children. Holy fuck, I'd call the fucking COPS! Screw what the husband says. I've started getting mad and told Lisa, under no circumstances, are they allowed in my yard when I'm not home and they are not allowed in my garden at any time. A few years ago at one I threw my friend Tara met my former co-worker Tony and they hit it off. This subreddit is for a podcast called Reddit On Wiki, that reads reddit stories. So, AITA for not allowing my neighbor to use my driveway for his guests, despite having tried to address the issue politely? I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. So I(22m) use my brothers netflix (I sometimes pitch in). My neighbor's child wants to see my cats almost every day and I have been ignoring her because of the cat's desire to be left alone, my mom's migraines, and me being in the basement where stairs are difficult to walk up. But OP isn’t inconveniencing them, so they have no responsibility to accommodate them. He ended up in prison for 12 years on kidnapping and r*pe charges. Neighbors or not. She introduced this is a community like r/AmITheAsshole except unlike that subreddit here you can post interpersonal conflicts, anything that's AITA but is not allowed there even posting about Scar from the lion king and trying to convince redditors that he was not the AH. My neighbor asked this morning for people to watch her kids (7 and 9) this week. Nobody does anything about it and she just goes knocking on our door in 1 in the morning and she says some random thing like 'wanna hang out tommorow' or 'what day is it' It's starting to get on my last nerve because a couple of days ago she came to the restraunt I work in part time as a waitress, instead of ordering like the normal person anyone 797 subscribers in the YTAonly community. A. I was This comment is a copy of your post so readers can see the original text if your post is edited or removed. Subreddit Announcements Happy Anniversary, AITA! By demanding a neighbor pay for the fence and therefore take control of the fence, they may also have accidentally created access rights allowing the neighbor to enter their property for fence maintenance. In fact, not reporting this which then leads to a liability issue could be grounds for landlord evicting not only neighbors but yourself for not promptly reporting. they have no right to use a pool that is not theirs. I would have told the lady to get out of my house and not to come back, I don’t allow thieves at my table, and that if she ever trespassed on my property again I’d call the police. 2. Edit #2: plenty have added to my comments indicating it's not adverse possession and the term I was looking for was easement - and it's likely not that either. My daycare is from 10am to 6pm which is pretty standard hours for noise and I don’t let the kids run wild or anything but I’ve always received complaints. They may not have that kind of neighborly relationship. We talked about many things, especially about my husband, how his presence could still be felt on the day, how my daughter felt jealous that her fiance would get to This comment is a copy of your post so readers can see the original text if your post is edited or removed. However. In case this story gets deleted/removed: AITA for setting boundaries with my neighbor? I (27F) moved into a new place a few months ago. I'm beginning to think that I acted to harshly and that the boundaries I set are a bit too much. 5 ba, but he is living with his gf and 6 others, so it’s 8 people total, with 8 cars, and street parking only. I just bought what I consider my dream house, a place with some privacy, but still in a more urban area, and a detached 4 car shop style garage to indulge my car obsession. He just got out 2 years ago and moved back to our home state 3 months back. 10,208 votes and 4,919 comments so far on Reddit not letting my neighbor use my driveway to access their home after initially allowing them to do so on a trial basis. Whether it was passive aggressive notes or side eyeing the parents that would sometimes wait in the building’s lobby, they were not kind. My other neighbor said my kids were the only ones who didn't wreck his yard on our street and I kept an eye on them. I allowed my neighbor to use my driveway roughly a year and a half ago to get to his yard to park his car on his back terrace(He had no fence there and my backyard is fenced) after he asked me, he told me he was having I also struggle with this and have learned that repeatedly allowing my anger to build and then explode because I'm being "nice" and bending my boundaries too much DOES make me TA. They may look like nice young women having a bad day (cause there's always a desperate story why they need it, and it usually involves the wallet being stolen), and I may look like a sweet little old white haired naive grandma, but they're not and I'm not. It's not like the neighbor/friend is asking Lotta to watch a kid or both kids every week. AITA for choosing not to confront the neighbors directly and planning on keeping the property management aware of issues with them? This comment is a copy of your post so readers can see the original text if your post is edited or removed. Their dogs were playing with it, and I figured it was either theirs, or it had blown in and they were letting the dogs have some fun with it until trash day. I had to beg to differ. Subreddit Announcement The Asshole Universe is Expanding, Again: Introducing Another New Sister Subreddit! My neighbor was really sad, and when we took it to the mechanic, the repairs would cost more than the car, so it was not worth it (my sports car takes most of my money anyways, I live with not too much things nor luxuries except my car, I am not exactly rich). I called the police on my neighbour who not wired my car, but now it seems like I’m the asshole as he needed my car because his wife was in labour. It takes way less time and energy to use a snow blower vs a shovel. The first complaint I got before the gates were up was when I parked my car on the driveway and not on the part in front of my house. When handing them out I noticed that 2 kids were definitely not invited because they weren’t my nieces/nephews or of a family friend. It would take A LOT to repair my relationship with my husband, snapping out of it or not it shouldn't have taken this level of absolute insanity to make it happen. I politely asked my neighbors to check with us before letting their kids play in our yard, but they seemed offended and said I was being unreasonable. Finally this came to a head when I got home two days ago. After my ex gf left, they showed interest in helping with my dog, who’s already grown up (F, 6 and a half) and very well-behaved. We do not allow posts where the central conflict is transmitting or contracting any communicable disease, or undergoing any kind of medical procedure. Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. This guy rolls up, and parks in front of my house and goes next door. I respect and love my daughter. Any parent who does not agree to my rules, will not be allowed to have their child here without parent supervision. Your policy probably states how this is handled. Nightmare fuel. Also, OP is not responsible for accommodating them to this extent. Heck, I caught my dumbass cat licking the kitchen sink the other day, and he's the reason I don't keep the toilet lid up. 31 votes, 19 comments. Subreddit Announcements Happy Anniversary, AITA! Now both my husband and his brother work at the same place and it’s a constant battle between the two because my husband works incredibly hard at his job, while his brother passes by simply from kissing the bosses ass, and he feels incredibly threatened that my husband is 4 years younger and makes the same amount as him. Tell us about any non-vi I also keep everything clean and beautiful outside out of respect for the neighbors so it is also a lot of landscaping work. 78K subscribers in the redditonwiki community. At my old house the neighbor next door had a daughter same age (born a week apart). She had a sitter lined up but things fell through at the last second, and she cannot take time off work all week at the last second without being fired. A little over a week ago, I noticed an empty pot - not mine - sitting in my neighbor's yard. I parked my car half and half into both my parking spots to prevent my neighbors from using my second parking spot. I feel I may have but I also feel I took simple steps to not allow my roommate to be inconsiderate. If house 4 guy is so concerned about Amy’s driveway, he should have cleared it himself with the snowblower. I… Nothing stops them. As such, it's always been a policy in my house that guests are not allowed to poop in my toilet. Screams desperate addict to me. We also followed this up with a letter to the neighbors and informed that the kids were not allowed to play, dig or draw on our property and sent it certified mail. My dad had put in a hoop at one our houses and our neighbors, teenage aged came over at all hours every day just to play. The house was obviously a wreck by the time Mandy got home. The dock is really the only way to access the pond on the side of me and my neighbors house, because of weeds. She believes we should take our daughter's words at face value and assume she no longer wants the money. Posted by u/ThinkConfusion6810 - 22,440 votes and 1,733 comments We have told my dad we don’t want him using our driveway as storage, PLUS our lease does not allow another person’s storage on our property since we rent. just because it’s right next to theirs and she can’t afford to fill it does not mean they have a right to use it. Apparently, a number of the neighbors built the fire pit and put the tables and rocks and park like features out there. But never did the neighbor ask “hey can my kid use your back yard playset?” I’m not going to write the neighbors a note back since I don’t need things getting escalated and add more unnecessary drama, but I’m going to continue to file reports with the office. We had a neighbor's kid who was 2 years old wandering down the street by himself. My 11 year old daughter is begging me for social media accounts because her friends have it. Posted by u/Jealous_Arm_5777 - 2,178 votes and 484 comments The landlord next door put up a “new” fence. The neighbor again said that Mr. There's just so much wrong with the MIL's conduct in this story. The Real Housewives of Atlanta The Bachelor Sister Wives 90 Day Fiance Wife Swap The Amazing Race Australia Married at First Sight The Real Housewives of Dallas My 600-lb Life Last Week Tonight with John Oliver That same neighbor advised me that my lot has always been the neighborhood entrance to the lake. we have a pool in our yard that backs up to the neighbor’s backyard and they have NEVER even touched our pool because it’s our property. IATA stands for "I am the asshole," and IWBTA… NTA. That's terrifying. The fence was on the property prior to us building a house next door, so it’s definitely his fence. Then once a contract is finalized, I will have all families sign the contract for each child, this will include my neighbor who yelled at me. AITA for asking my neighbor not to park in front of our house? My ex and I are split up. Surprisingly, our kids are around the same age. My family lives very near to theirs, so my aunt and uncle have a history of allowing their children to constantly come to our house and, in essence, get babysat by my mom, who is constantly busy, the problem is the cousins would frequently distract my little brothers from completing their chores my mom had assigned them, before they could play. 2)I agreed to let them use my driveway temporarily, and now I'm taking away that convenience, which they have grown accustomed to. AITA is a platform for moral judgement, not medical advice. If they were to get hurt in the garage (accidents happen) they can comeback and sue you for damages. I don't think a girlfriend is more important than their grandchild and my parents agree. Changing your mind doesn't make you an asshole No, but OP didn't change his mind. People cross-post… Not sure if it is relevant but I am 29, the new neighbors are probably in their early 30's and my previous neighbor was 78. X always let them do it, and again we explained that we were not Mr. ). During my daughter’s birthday party, held in our yard that is semi-fenced, I started to bring out the cupcakes for the kids. You're right, you're not his parent, but you're treating him like you are. “He asked me to make major renovations to my condo that would not only permanently lower my property value and create a hazard in my property when the pipes freeze, but also is against building As for the possibility of my stepmother calling the CPS, when my husband went to get the rest of our belongings, five days ago, along with my brothers-in-law and father-in-law, my stepmother said that stealing her baby would not go unpunished, and that she would show it to everyone world that the two of us weren't good parents, and that we were Here's the thing: I am completely disgusted by the thought of other people's poop. DO. My next step is contacting the I remember once the grocery delivery for my neighbor messed up so they arrive to deliver when the neighbors were not home, and there was some frozen items. There are only 4 units in my complex, two downstairs and two upstairs. They tell me I’m on my own meters and bill and on their end, nothing is running off of my neighbors. I feel like refusing to continue babysitting her kids might be a dick move. They have been parking on my lot, which has messed up the lawn and they’ve also run over flower beds multiple times. I was completely ok with the neighbor child over to play with my son while we were home. I said no because of liability. 2: I got rid of her stuff without her permission because I didn't want it in my yard. My neighbor didn't like this decision. I'm not his parents, he's a grown adult, I'm not obligated to reprimand him. My across the street neighbors always have people over and they often have parties. The property value of my neighborhood has shot up so much over the years, and there’s no HOA around here. UPDATE 2: My wife and I are discussing our daughter's response and our next actions to resolve this situation. That action might make me the asshole if it's going a step too far. My wife normally is the type to let people use the driveway but this wasn't normal. Despite my best efforts to include them in our life together, it almost always implodes into drama and perceived slights against them. I also called my neighbor a Karen in an argument. Subreddit Announcement My neighbors were unhappy about this I think. There is a car parked in that spot. For context, my wife has always had a strained relationship with my daughter and did not approve of many of her life choices. Whilst she understood my concerns she assured me no one ever comes here but residents and invited visitors and my safety is not to worry. She I tell them no. All the homes in this area are connected to one another. I politely declined because I wasn't comfortable with that. 13 votes, 37 comments. I don’t feel entitled to the driveway, I’m willing to not park there at all if that’s the requirement. If you were to let them use the garage you actually leave yourself liable. I then realized they were my neighbors kids. We have one car. It all went well. My partner doesn't allow my cat into our bedroom and I accept that as his personal boundary. Two neighbors agreed with me and the other neighbor doesn’t care. Read this before contacting the mod team. I took the stuff from delivery guy (who was also completely lost on what he was supposed to do) stuck as much as I could in my fridge and freezer and left a note on their door. Try googling ~my neighbor cut down my trees in a remote area to make their own road~ 🤣🤣🤣. So, Reddit, AITA for wanting my neighbors to ask for permission before allowing their kids to play in my yard? Doing something to make it more accessible in a way that doesn't negatively affect OP is a great way to not be an asshole, get along with their neighbors, have their privacy respected, and be generally accepted instead of having pretty much everyone around there call them an asshole. Your reasons are a bit off to me, but the reasons are your own, as is the bed. We own a spot in there too. I'm not answering my neighbor's phone calls after she's made me her free babysitter without asking. Imagine the whole town using it like a shortcut. In the past year, I have become good friends with my next door neighbors who also have kids aged 7 and 1. The indoor space is shared, so we have no choice but to see each other. They simply walked right next to the curb. My neighbor asked me to watch her dog while she and her family go on vacation for the Labor Day weekend. It may make me the asshole because I don't have to. In fact, this sounds like a failed manipulation plot to get others to pay for his own problems that he needs to fix himself. Yeah my parents have an HOA and suffice to say in under 8 years people have sued the HOA, the HOA has sued people, hell my parents neighbors (who USED to be their friends) trespassed on my parents property (which isn't even on the same street as these people) and cut my parents bushes (reasons unknown) and lied about it (parents have it on outdoor cameras), so these people made up a lie that not allowing nabours to swim in my pool and not helping a single mom 2) kicking them out of my yard Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQ. My brother is angry because this is his first Christmas with his girlfriend and we celebrate it every year with my parents - they should "get" this year. Apparently I put the mother and babies lives at risk Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQ I was the parent who wouldn't let them cut thru neighbors yards when they were little. Back when my BIL was 28, he had a "relationship" with a 15yo girl. That way no one will bother him about the car in the grass and it will make their lives easier. My policy has family listed as my spouse, natural or adopted kids, patents, and siblings. My neighbor never shuts up. My husband and I have been together for almost 20 years. About 1 year ago, my neighbor sold the house to a couple with 2 young kids. . My neighbor texted me asking if the kids could wash my car and that they are using a wash cloth. That's a good point. Any parent who agrees is welcome to have their children here while I am in the garden. I also know they’ve been economically struggling, so when I had to leave for a weekend I hired them to walk her while I was away and left a copy of my keys with them. Never asked and hit our cars since we had some cars parked I the driveway. There was so much traffic constantly. The thought of another person that's not me or my husband defecating in my house fills me with disgust, dread, and anxiety. She's just a kid, and just wants to see the cat, so that could make me the AH AUTOMOD Thanks for posting! This comment is a copy of your post so readers can see the original text if your post is edited or removed. We don’t know how close the area is to OP’s house. The rules are simple: if you OWN, (must be the owner, doesn't work if you're renting) you have the RIGHT to have ONE parking spot IF there are any without 459 votes, 126 comments. My neighbor’s house sold for over $560k and mine is worth roughly $400k. As far as the cat whinging when its shut out of the room, they do that if they think it will gain them access. I stood my ground, explaining that I had tried to address the issue politely, and that my driveway is my private property. Then tell MIL to shove it because she can be friends with a thief but not in my house and not at my expense. I apologized for if I had ever come off as not supportive of her, as many comments said I sounded homophobic and I want to be clear that I am not. Already that's sucky but he parks in front of my driveway, with 10 feet or so of space behind him. They dated for a while, and two years later, once again at my Christmas party, she showed up with a ring on her finger and they announced for the first time that they were engaged. A filtered version of r/AmItheAsshole showing only YTA posts. I'm not all familiar with NY laws but my personal opinion would be to not let any neighbors use your property. I added that he should have respected my request for permission and made better arrangements for his guests' parking. She then asks would I mind lending her my hall key so she can make a copy and let other make their own copy from hers. I (26F) just moved into a new, small apartment block two weeks ago. This is the first instance - and for an hour. Even my child free/not good with kids self could manage an hour watching a 5 y/o to help a neighbor who's also a friend in an emergency. I think I could be the asshole as my neighbours seem very angry with me for not allowing them onto my backyard. I talk with my neighbors regularly too but the only time I asked/told my neighbors about my fence installation was when I asked if it was ok to connect my fence to theirs. So I recently just moved into my new apartment complex less than 60 days ago. She never does. He said yes initially, changed his mind, and then instead of just saying 'hey, I changed my mind, I realized I actually don't want you guys using my pool, sorry but that's the case' he became passive aggressive and made up excuses when they asked instead of outright saying no, and when they asked recently after a I watched them to make sure they didn’t try to run away from home or anything, but otherwise left Nick and Mya to their own devices. Since neighbors oldest is good friends with both of my kids, I allow them to come play on our swingset whenever they would like. My other neighbors, who live a little farther away, are about 40 and have a 15 year old son. By demanding a neighbor pay for the fence and therefore take control of the fence, they may also have accidentally created access rights allowing the neighbor to enter their property for fence maintenance. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. I decided to junk it and winterize my sports car. I throw a pretty big Christmas party every year going on a decade now. I might be an asshole for not letting my neighbors use the parking space even though I don't need it much. Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Now, I have pets, and while I do feel sorry for the shitty situation my neighbor was in, I do not feel empathetic enough to risk my pets' wellbeing by having such dangerous and corrosive substances anywhere in my house. I've been hit up for cash on public transit by addicts jonesing for a fix. I would never allow someone to use my backyard like this. Especially not so soon after moving in. Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQ. They said yes, however if they said no I would have paid more and had another post installed. and Mrs. AUTOMOD The following is a copy of the above post. My neighbors who own the other quarter of the pond are in their early/mid thirties and have a 9/10 year old son. So AITA for not allowing them? 1: I removed my neighbor's stuff and I took it to the dump to be disposed of. Hearing this I text my neighbor back and relay this info and tell them I will not be paying their bill since the company tells me I’m not drawing off of it at all, and angry over their threats ask them what grounds they have to sue me just Whilst she understood my concerns she assured me no one ever comes here but residents and invited visitors and my safety is not to worry. About three months ago, my new neighbor, Mark, approached me asking if he could use my parking spot since I commute by bike and rarely use my car. AITA for ignoring the doorbell. NTA for not wanting the cat on your bed. This comment is NOT accusing you of copying anything. There are no signs. This comment is a copy of your post so readers can see the original text if your post is edited or removed. NOT. We are both not high income but he somehow landed a wife who makes 4x our income and they often go out of the country on nice vacations which I guess he has been sharing with the kids. Background info: Me (14F) My parents (48M and 46F) Neighbors (~70 M and F) After a long night of lightning and rain, my dad walks outside to our backyard to find a giant tree from our neighbors yard toppled onto our main cable line. They argued that it's a shared space since our yards are adjacent. WANT. My neighbor, Ashley (20sF) shares a back fence with me. or even the neighbors family game night because their guests don’t know any better because they were told to park there for christmas so why not park there It’s only my children and myself here, and I’m the only driver. My husband's long-time friend and friend's wife and kids (9 and 4) are staying at our house for 4 days during their trip. My parents own a house in Outer Sunset in San Francisco. Let’s see what he had to say… AITA for no allowing my neighbors to make a copy of my apartment key? My neighbor graciously offered to allow me to park in her driveway if she has a copy of my key to move the car when she needs to, and I don’t want to do this. My brothers words have been getting to me though and I do feel awful. even if she hadn’t done My downstairs neighbor, which does not have parking as part of the building, has started to take the liberty of parking in my second spot whenever we have a street cleaning day. But since they havent even asked me to use my extra spot i feel disrespected. He can wait for me to get home to open the door for him if he can't even keep track of his key. Hi reddit! I’m new here so sorry if my writing is confusing feel free to comment if I forget something. I had told my spouse repeatedly I. It's probably even in your rental contract to report any property deficiencies promptly (plumbing leaks, electrical issues, cracks forming in floors, gas appliance issues, etc. Ok guys, so this goes back to about a month ago when I purchased my new house. So because apparently the few subreddits I've posted this on didn't like this and downvoted it to oblivion I have to ask as my… I locked my fence denying the neighbor's tree service access to my yard after the tree service left a mess and were rude 2) might make neighbor upset Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQ Most kind-hearted people don't until it's too late ;) Edit: it's called adverse possession and would depend on the law in your state. I feel like the fact that they still offered to be co-signers on a new account AFTER they got angry, demanded access to the account, then threatened to trash the computer when they didn't get access shows that they still want to control her and her money, especially after they didn't offer to pay her back for the money they "forgot" about because let's be clear: they stole it. You went to another kid's house you walked on the sidewalk. The neighbor comes running out of her house screaming at us and tells me to get my child and dog under control. and if he says yes this once for christmas, it turns into new years, parties, 4th of july, events, every holiday after and then other neighbors potentially joining in and not even asking. This is fine, parking in the neighborhood is expensive and I get staying there for an hour, so I haven’t said anything. This comment is a record of the above post as it was originally written, in case the post is deleted or edited. Tell us about any non-vi I had huge issues with my tweak neighbor who did this and much more and we get charged if our can is overflowing at all, after many times removing it and putting it back in her can I started testing my throwing arm and throwing it at her door and into her area that was already piled with trash (she was a hoarder) only did that twice before she stopped for good. The life and death consequences of many medical conflicts are well outside of Reddit's paygrade. Mine are 8 and six, his are 7, 6 and 3. Their garage is in the side of the house, right below my kitchen window. In chatting with a couple of the friends I’ve managed to make in my new neighborhood, they confirmed that what the neighbor Yes. Posted by u/seba_make - 94 votes and 38 comments I will not give up my space. POOL. NTA. X and we did not want them to do this. Mark's wife was pregnant and due any day, and they needed an extra spot for when the family came to visit to see the baby. Been busy setting up the place, furniture, all of it. We rented an apartment for a year where I paid 130… My neighbor’s house (now her grandson’s) has 4 br/1. The dog did NOT pee or poop in the yard. Our older son lives with him and younger with me. The afternoon I moved in, one of my neighbours came up to the steps (each apartment has a little front area, and mine faces the carpark). So day before yesterday my very close friend asked if she can use it. So I asked them politely not to fish in my backyard and they left after staring me down a bit, no big deal. So I (19f if it’s… So I texted my neighbors who own the other two-thirds on the pond and asked if they knew them and how they felt if I told them they couldn’t fish here anymore. They have taken to playing in the garden beds and bringing shovels to dig. On top of that, we want to use the area for my son’s basketball court space. At this point about the only thing the government is good for is picking the wrong side of the legal position on every possible occasion. It is spring break, so they are out of school. My guess is that she is doing to that person what she did with me, but I don't know that for sure. My garden was wrecked. I'm saying NTA still because it doesn't sound like setting boundaries with these people would have ever gone well, but I really hope you start working on that OP. I don't need to be friends with the guy, but do not want a negative relationship with my neighbors. So the ramp is next to the parking space on her other side from me. UPDATE: The van is back, but now she is backing into the spot. Our relationship was over already as far as I was concerned due to so many more instances of my opinion being 'wrong', and I had seen a lawyer just a few days prior, so when I came home one day to him saying a pool guy was coming over for an estimate I snapped. My dad threw a fit and my neighbors knew my dad as the nicest, kindest guy. It has been windy here, as is common in the springtime, and some trash has blown around. I really do not know my neighbors and my kids play in my front yard constantly. My apartment building is one of the few fortunate enough to have its own parking. Yep. My younger brother (26M) and I (29M) have lived together for two years. I reside downstairs in the sec AITA for no allowing my neighbors to make a copy of my apartment key? (r/AmITheAsshole)Source: Visible-Clue165 on Reddit (link removed at the insistence of Y Mar 19, 2024 · But not all places work like that, and the guy who wrote this story on Reddit wants to know if he acted like a jerk toward his new neighbors. Yeah my parents have an HOA and suffice to say in under 8 years people have sued the HOA, the HOA has sued people, hell my parents neighbors (who USED to be their friends) trespassed on my parents property (which isn't even on the same street as these people) and cut my parents bushes (reasons unknown) and lied about it (parents have it on outdoor cameras), so these people made up a lie that If you were to let them use the garage you actually leave yourself liable. He's a grown adult, he has the right to have access to his home and make his own mistakes. Thing is, I am hoping to remain civil with him, so I hope he respects my boundary. Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQ NTA, It’s up to you how you use your money, you’re not obligated to be friends with neighbors, and it’s his fault for not training his own dog properly so this tv accident wouldn’t happen. I was the parent who wouldn't let them cut thru neighbors yards when they were little. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns. My parents still paid me since a deal is a deal. zbtb becbf ezpi yukum ehole lunajq wuebidj rvqli jdeazs jbw