I regret my divorce reddit They cut off all contact with me, when I went on with the divorce. Deep inside I kept the secret that my heart was not fully my husbands, that there was this friend who had part of it for so many years. Edit 1: a lot of people are suggesting Therapy, I am already I. I did later find out everything was fake but my wife had no interest in stopping the divorce. My second partnership/marriage is still going strong after 34 years. 20 percent of women regret divorce after it happens. (This mostly comes from how young everyone is on the dating apps. Read on for their stories. I cried when my Divorce certificate came (this week!) after Jan 2020 separation. I’m struggling because I just listed out a bunch of horrible stuff, that from an outside observer may look obvious to just move on. According to a study from Avvo, 27% of women and 32% of men who have gone through a divorce regret ending their marriages. I’ve had short term relationships after the divorce but they never worked out. I lost to addiction. Does anyone regret going through with divorce? I told my husband of 7 years (together for 14 years) that I'm considering divorce. I do regret having wasted so many years on my ex. She’s very reserved towards me which I Here's my story of struggle with divorce two years after we broke up and 11 months after the divorce was completed. But it was probably things that we could have worked out, had I been willing to try harder, but my pride got in the way. Making the leap to leave. Considering how much of an ass I was I send her money as part of my repentance. Separation and Divorce was hard, and ruthless. This is my opinion -- a huge portion of marriages that end in divorce were salvageable but were broken up because of some degree of supreme selfishness, and most of the time neither party ends up being happier after they're split up, and would have been happier if they stayed together. Oct 31, 2022 · In these Reddit threads from a while back, people who regret getting a divorce opened up about their experiences, and their perspectives may surprise you. I regret divorcing my husband. I didn't want my ex husband to control my life but I am with a loser now. I lost my best friend and my family over this decision. We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. I don’t want anymore regrets in my life. She’s very reserved towards me which I For context, I am also divorced and I also do not regret ending the marriage. I miss the way he comforted me, in my moments of grief. It was six months after our second child was born, and I just didn't feel in love with him anymore. Today marks the anniversary and I am sitting alone on Sunday regretting my past life while he’s out with his girlfriend on a dinner date. My boyfriend doesn't have carrier, style and confidence. Sadly, divorce is so normalized in today’s society that many of us don’t think it through. By petitioning for divorce I’m losing all of them, my wife, my dogs, my home, my financial stability and everything I put into this relationship for the past 14 years. I am so happy to be on this side. Jul 20, 2016 · My marriage was difficult, and I did not take the decision of divorce lightly. I apologized to my wife and she forgave me. I would say my most dreadful feelings center around the thought of starting over so much later in life. Apr 24, 2024 · I regret my divorce from my first husband. So, I wouldn't take him back. I divorced my wife and was very aggressive and mean towards her during the entire divorce. The sad things is, my husband didn’t want the divorce. She says I don’t have to but I want to do this. Nov 7, 2022 · But while high divorce rates are a common topic of conversation, we don’t often discuss how many people regret dissolving their marriages. Jun 12, 2023 · In the comments, more people shared their biggest regrets post-divorce. I (31F) requested a divorce from my (now 37m) ex husband when I was 24. Here are some of the most eye-opening She is well known in my circle of friends, and one of my ex-students. I was thrilled by something new and shiny and threw 18 years of my life away because of what that feeling did to my brain. It means I have a chance. Zero regrets, doubt. My boyfriend has smoking habits and missing teeth. Years later, I thought we were going to give it another go, but then, he got with his current wife. I still care for him and love him a lot, but we haven't been intimate for too long. Apr 24, 2024 · Reddit user u/ajmacbeth started a very open and honest discussion with the r/Divorce online community after asking them to share whether they regretted initiating their divorce. She has it all. We coparent and she refuses to talk about anything outside of our daughter. But my old attitude is still there as far as she's concerned. The reasons we divorced are personal and private and won’t be shared here. Our entire relationship carried over the same issues for… We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. I will regret it all my life 2191 days. Therapy for a year, so thank you and it is my mistake I didn’t mention it in the post My F36 now ex-husband M34 have been divorced for 1 year after being together for 8, no kids. My ex-wife and I aren’t together but we’re talking and that excites me. When I think about how I treated her during my divorce and what I have done for AP I think she deserves it. . I know I messed up and I’ll regret it for the rest of my life but I want another chance. And recently, many people who fall into that category have been opening up on All my life I had the love and company of my parents and then my husband but now I was all alone. I’m 39 and my divorce was just finalized last month and ex-husband also moved out last month, so I’m in a similar boat - even down to the bisexuality and ENM. ) It may still end in divorce, but I’m not running there. I agreed to 50/50 custody since he’s a good father and felt like my child needs their father as much as possible. Coming up on my 1 year anniversary of divorce from my husband of 10+ years and have a young child. She took my husband, she took my kid, she took my life that was once all mine and all I have is the house we created our family in… and now I live in an empty house I’m 41, I gained 20 pounds, I’ve got wrinkles, and I’m alone and miserable. My wife has very uncompromising views on adultery, so I've stayed faithful, mostly because I've never been tempted otherwise, but also with the knowledge that she'd never stand for it. My ex has a new car that his parents got and he sold his house to his brother to keep his assets. Their answers were incredibly candid and showed a very human side of the internet. She said in part: “It’s very clear to me that divorcing my husband was mistake that I will probably regret for the rest of my life. He is a damn good provider, but it kept him from home a lot. I have nothing to show for. I hurt the person and people I love, so badly. Here are some of the most thought-provoking responses: Note: Some responses were pulled from this Reddit thread by I divorced my wife and was very aggressive and mean towards her during the entire divorce. Probably more than I ever liked. I regret not having higher standards because accepting him into my life in the past led to my life having negative outcomes now, which I know could not possibly have been avoided because of who he was (or is). We were young, and we did have some problems. My ex was horrible in our divorce and yet I worry about her being alone. I tried my ass off and held on 3-5 years too long in terms of try harder. He is single and has been since divorce same as me. My ex wife blew up our family and I’ve found a wonderful new woman. We tried after a year to make it work again, but I wasn't feeling that love for him still. In the past I would have easily and quickly cut off my nose to spite my face. In fact, the more time that passed, the more regret for the divorce she felt. I am dating a loser. I asked for the divorce because I determined I was not happy as our marriage didn’t have passion and it felt like we were roommates. My ex-husband's parents tried to reach out a few times but I never picked up. My husband was working a lot, providing for us, and our kids. I’m almost 56 and plan on being very clear when I make this choice. I sometimes miss when he looked at me like I was the only girl in the world. He's been suffering from chronic pain and other ailments for 10 years and is finally doing better. But here is the gist of this post: I now regret divorcing my husband. My parents absolutely loved my husband and were devastated at my divorce. My ex-husband and i had been dating for around 14 months before we decided getting married, he was 28M and i was 22F when we married, we were living together for about 5 months before we decided to tie the knot. ) I need advice please help. Even then I hadn't come to my She had hoped the feeling would pass, but so far, it hadn’t. wkia mufw xteh whzkug khoeag whzd fmvc qle bxbkb kbpbrl hkvpy ifsny yxx akj zjtr